Children Abuse

Its real story and shocking for me that a father killed own son due to silence😭😭😭

 Wednesday evening was a normal day at Aziya Parveen's house. Her children were doing homework and she was in the yard with her sleep. When her husband Nazir Ahmed came to the house, Shazia told him that the stove in the house was broken. They took it to be repaired. In the meantime, Shazia's eyes caught and when she opened her eyes to the noise, she saw that her son was engulfed in flames. After being under treatment for the next two days, he succumbed. 

Shazia Parveen lived with her husband along with her four children and Nand in Chishti Nagar in Korangi area of ​​Karachi. Her marriage was arranged by her parents and her husband Nazir Ahmad is employed in a company at Port Qasim. 

According to Shazia Parveen, on Wednesday evening she woke up to the noise of her sleep. My sleep was making noise that brother what are you doing. I got up and went to the room and saw that my 12-year-old son Shahmeer was burning in the fire. Oil was poured on it and set on fire. My husband Nazir took Shahmeer on a motorcycle with his elder son to Qatar Hospital from where he was shifted to Burns Ward, where he died after two days of treatment. 

According to Shazia Parveen, her husband used to say that 'I will burn her legs when the fat melts, then her mind will be pleased, after all she killed my child. He got angry for not doing his homework and set my son on fire by sprinkling oil. Karachi's Market police station has registered a case of murder against Nazir Ahmed on the complaint of Shazia Parveen and his physical remand has also been obtained from the court. 

Accused Nazir Ahmed says that he was teaching but his son was not completing the work. When I asked him, he remained completely silent on which I got angry and only understood that there was paint oil lying in front of him, I threw it on him and lit the matchbox. I had burnt this bag to scare him and said that I will throw it away, I will throw it away. 

Nazir Ahmed says that he does not know how the burning bag fell on Shahmeer. "As soon as he screamed I regained consciousness, I put a blanket over him and took him on a bike to Qatar Hospital, then to Burns Ward where he died."An incident of violence against a child by the mother took place in Islamabad in the past few days. In Sector F-11, a woman tortured her son Basit, who had scars on his body. They were called to the school and questioned, but the woman clarified that this is her son, she corrected what she did, after which the child's photos went viral on social media. The concerned police station of Islamabad summoned the woman along with the child, after which the police took to Twitter to say that the IG of Police had taken notice of it. The mother and the child were immediately shifted to the police station where the mother said that the child was not paying attention to studies, so they were strict with him and she was ashamed of this action. 

In Pakistan, incidents of violence against children are reported in madrasas and schools, but now due to social media, incidents in homes are also being brought to light. 

Human rights activist and lawyer Zia Awan says that there is a law against domestic violence in three provinces of Sindh, Balochistan and Punjab which provides protection to women and the elderly as well as children. Apart from violence against children, it also prevents parents from engaging children in personal fights. 

There is a child protection law in Pakistan. Apart from this, there is a law to prevent beating and corporal punishment in educational institutions, but the problem is that they are not implemented and the police do not come into action. 

There is also a police helpline in Pakistan, while private organizations have also set up their own helplines. According to Zia Awan, people do not trust the government helpline and the private organizations do not have the resources. 

Negative attitudes distort the child's personality.

In Pakistani society, beating children is a normal thing and is seen as quite socially acceptable in the society. Dr. Chanilal, head of the Department of Emotional and Behavioral Health at Jinnah Hospital, Karachi, says that negative attitudes of parents distort the child's personality and affect their mental development. "This tendency is more in parents who have their own personality problems and their own deprivation because they want to do the things that they could not do in life for their children."

In our society, the relationship between parent and child is not friendship. If the child does something like that, we start to consider it as a stain on our honor and consider violence as our right. It is as if the child is a robot who presses buttons and follows orders. 

"Children need time and attention," says Dr. Chanilal. Parents should have at least one meal with their children so that the children realize that their time is spent at home as working parents leave in the morning and return in the evening or at night when the children are sleeping. , so they are not in touch with them.'